My friend always tell me, “You all Malay, very lucky one….. We, Chinese ar, our wedding can cost $50,000 – $60,000…… Our life savings all gone….”
I used to agree with them, until I plan for my own one…. but now, I have a come back line, ” Ya lah….But you all can cover back your costs wat….”
lolz….. I have been procrastinating to post my rough calculation on the cost of Malay wedding in Singapore. But for the benefit of all, below is the extract from my own financial plan, just for my side of the wedding held under my HDB blk, not inclusive my future wife’s side…….
If you are planning to get married in a few years time, going to get married, just gotten married, already few years in marriage, do call me for a FREE financial planning advice. I will be very happy to assist you! ![]()






1. November 2012 at 1:40 pm
Your brother charges you too much
13. January 2013 at 9:51 pm
Thanks Khai for commenting. He scales it down because I am his brother!
4. March 2013 at 8:14 pm
Salam Helmi, could I use your computation in my thesis paper? I’m doing a thesis on Malay weddings and came across this. It’s a good representation of an average Malay wedding and could come in handy for my paper(:
13. April 2013 at 9:17 am
Waalaikumsalam. Go ahead Sis. Just remember to credit it to http://www.helmihakim.com at the computation table, footnote or bibliography. Thanks!