My previous post on how to handle negative people, received a fair share of reading. Thank you for those who have emailed me and called me regularly to show your support.
You are deeply appreciated! 🙂
As now, I am undergoing Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner (some motivational stuffs) certification course, I will be sharing with you some life skills that I believe will be relevant to your daily life.
Before that…..I have a question for you!
Have you encountered a friend, who speak soooo….sweetly in front of you…smiling….cracking jokes….talking good stuffs…and one day, you happen by the grace of God, find out, that he or she has been badmouthing you all along behind your back?
How will you feel? Betrayed?
If felt like piercing of the heart, slicing it thinly, spreading over the table and grinding it viciously with a sharp edged stone till it melt…..
It is the worst kind of experience that I ever have in my life, but I am thankful to it, because that experience adds in flavor to the already clear glass of watery life experiences that I had thus far.
At least,now, I know, the true character of the person,who have been masking under the shadow of hypocrisy all along.
Waited Solution: Just ignore that hypocrite, act nothing happen, and reduce contact. The more you talk, the more bad things he or she will regurgitate behind your back.
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You see….In our profession as a financial consultant, it is very, very important for us, to surround ourselves with positive minded people.
Who we CHOOSE to surround ourselves everyday, will determine who we are in the future. In NLP, there is this theory called, “Significant Emotional Experience”.
In our life,we have a number of significant emotional experiences. These are events that is easy to remember and will evoke certain emotions when we recall that event.
In NLP, we were taught to create as many POSITIVE significant emotional experiences as possible.
Example, if our team, whenever someone closes a case,he or she confirmed feel very happy. In the team, what we did, is we AMPLIFY his HAPPINESS by CELEBRATING his success TOGETHER! 🙂
We celebrate that moment together as a team. It is a culture imbued, cultivated in our team. Yes…We all celebrate the success together as a team! 🙂
You need to be surrounded by positive minded people because, everytime, you meet success and you share with the people surrounding you, you will receive positive responses.
These Positive Events + Positive Responses = Positive Significant Emotional Experiences
…and you know what? That is GOOD and HEALTHY.
What about negative people or worst hypocrites?
Stay away from them. They are like poison to kill you, without you knowing!
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