I’ve read the book “How to Enjoy Your Life and Your Job” by Dale Carnegie five times.
When my wife asked why I kept going back to the same book, I smiled.
Because it’s filled with timeless truths.
Although the book was first published in 1936, the wisdom inside still resonates today — especially with us as Muslims living in modern Singapore.
Some people dismiss books like these as “old ideas” or “common sense.” But let’s be honest: it’s often the simplest things we overlook the most.
After reading it again and again, two concepts stood out for me — not just because they’re important, but because they align perfectly with Islamic financial planning.
The two key ingredients?
👉 Gratitude (Bersyukur)
👉 Patience (Bersabar)
Let’s explore how these two principles — already core values in Islam — can attract more barakah and rezeki into your life, especially when applied to your finances.
1. Bersyukur (Gratitude) — The Magnet of Barakah
In his book, Dale Carnegie asks:
“Would you sell your eyes for a billion dollars? Your legs? Your children?”
He makes the point that we’re already wealthy, yet we often overlook the blessings we already have.
In Islam, this is crystal clear.
Allah SWT says in the Quran:
“If you are grateful, I will surely increase your blessings; but if you deny them, indeed, My punishment is severe.”
— Surah Ibrahim, 14:7
Gratitude is not just about saying “Alhamdulillah” when things go well.
It’s also about being grateful during challenges, when we struggle to save money, or when our investments dip.
When it comes to Islamic financial planning, I always tell my clients:
“Be grateful for every opportunity you have to save, invest, and provide for your family the halal way — even if it’s small. Every dollar saved and invested sincerely is a form of gratitude to Allah.”
Rezeki isn’t just about money.
It’s about health, time, peace of mind, righteous children, a loyal spouse, supportive in-laws, good friends… and yes, halal investments that grow quietly in the background.
Gratitude expands these blessings.
2. Bersabar (Patience) — Like Planting a Date Tree
Dale Carnegie reminded readers that many of life’s outcomes aren’t instant — they require patience, persistence, and calmness under pressure.
That reminded me of something I once heard from an Ustaz:
“When you plant a date seed, it can take 4 to 8 years before it bears fruit. But once it does, it produces sweet dates for decades.”
That’s exactly what sabar looks like in Islamic financial planning.
I had a client, a young couple in their early 30s, who started a modest Takaful-linked investment plan. Every month, they contributed a small amount — despite friends telling them to “try something faster.”
They stayed consistent. They didn’t chase quick gains. They didn’t panic when markets dipped.
After 12 years, that “small seed” grew into a strong financial tree — enough to fund their daughter’s university education without taking any loans.
Sabar isn’t passive. It’s active trust in Allah’s timing while doing your part.
Allah SWT says:
“Indeed, Allah is with those who are patient.”
(Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:153)
And in the world of halal investing, patience often separates those who barely start from those who truly succeed.
If you’re rushing to see profits in 2 years… you’re probably still planting your seed.
But if you water that seed — with sabar, discipline, and doa — the tree will grow… and you’ll eat from it for years to come, in dunya and akhirah.
Want to Attract More Rezeki into Your Life?
If you want to enjoy barakah in your finances the Shariah-compliant way — and build a solid foundation for your family’s future — I’m here to help.
You can WhatsApp me, Helmi Hakim, at 96520134
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Let’s plan your halal wealth journey — with gratitude, patience, and rezeki in abundance, insyaAllah. ☺️
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