40 Tips For A Better Life

Fri, May 23, 2008

Miscellaneous, Motivation

I feel very angry.

Someone has been spreading rumours about me that, I am trying to steal other people staffs and getting them to be my personal assistants.

Haiz… I hate to deal with these NEGATIVE people who spread lies, and I really hope, they will put a STOP to it.

If you are reading my blog at this very moment, I have to tell you straight, that your action is sincerely UNAPPRECIATED.

I dont know who spread these type of rumours, and I guess, I have to deal with it.

I recommend them, to read the theory law of reciprocity here.

I can go on, nagging about negativity, yet remember, E + R = O ?

I guess, its a waste of my time AND ENERGY, to deal with negative people.

By dealing with them, I am putting myself down to their level, and I would never want, to put myself to a level, where putting down others is synonymous with their lifestyle.


I am so used to think positively and to think negatively NEEDS DOUBLE MY ENERGY!

hahahahhh…I feel like like filling up a jigsaw puzzle.

huhhhh……Feel better now, after letting my negative energy out.:)

Btw, I will like to share with you something positive now.

I have to thank my client, Kak Fardah for sharing this with me.

Thank you soooo…much… Your email came when I much need it!

Guess, blessing from God. ๐Ÿ™‚

40 Tips For A Better Life

1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.. Buy a lock if you have to.

3.. Buy a DVR and tape your late night shows and get more sleep.

4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, ‘My purpose is to __________ today.’

5. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.

6. Play more games and read more books than you did in 2007.

7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, tai chi, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.

9. Dream more while you are awake.

10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

11. Drink green tea and plenty of warm water. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds & walnuts.

12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

13. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk and let new and flowing energy into your life.

14. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

17. Smile and laugh more. It will keep the energy vampires away.

18. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

20.. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

21. You don’t have to win every argument.. Agree to disagree..

22. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.

23. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: ‘In five years, will this matter?’

26. Forgive everyone for everything.

27. What other people think of you is none of your business.

28. GOD
heals almost everything.

29. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

30. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

31. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

32. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

. The best is yet to come.

34. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

35. Do the right thing!

.. Call your family often.
(Or email them to death!!!) =)

37. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: I am thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________.

38. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

39. Enjoy the ride. Remember this is not Disney World and you certainly don’t want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life so make the most of it and enjoy the ride.

40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about.

May your troubles be less, May your blessings be more, May nothing but happiness come through your door!.


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3 Responses to “40 Tips For A Better Life”

  1. -cHaNeLuRv- Says:

    hEy dUn nId oThEr 2 bRiNg u DwN,b hOneSt&sIncErE iN lIfe,iM sUrE u wIlL mAkE iT tHrU…”pRomOtE uRsElF bUt dUn dEmOtE oThEr”..:p…tAkIn cRe!!

  2. fizah Says:


    smile is the ultimate anti depressant. agreed!
    dont let others get you down. jiayou! you can do whatever it is you put your mind to. take care.

  3. Helmi Hakim Says:

    cHaNeLuRv & fizah >>> Thank you for your word of encouragement!

    I really appreciate it! ๐Ÿ™‚

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