I know that many of you out there are having a roller coaster ride this year 2021.
Some cannot sleep at night. Heart feels uneasy.
Debts around your waist.
Insurmountable challenges weight down on your shoulders (and the burden feels just too heavy!) Many are very worried about the future. 🙁
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The Covid19 pandemic around the world has impacted us again in Singapore!
It’s a strange kind of feeling where we now have heightened measures this time round
which feels quite similar to the painful circuit breaker we had last year.
Officially we Muslims in Singapore only celebrated 3 days of Hari Raya Puasa with 5 unique visitors per visit. And now, we are back home
with our children occupied with full home based learning.
Back to square 1.
The point where we first started. 🙁
I took some time to reflect on my life and read books for inspiration to lift myself up.
Maintain my sanity.
And make myself feel better.
I want to share these life saving secrets with you.
I want to tell you, despite all challenges, all setbacks that befall us, never lose hope that the brighter future awaits us.
Presenting….
5 Secret Ways To Make Yourself Feel Better When Handling Challenges In Your Life
Read on…
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1. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.
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I always believe this.
Focus. Be in Control.
Take charge. Empower.
Be at the driver’s seat. Steer the wheel.
And the only way you can do that is by following this mantra. When life gives you lemons, you turn that sour lemons into a sweet lemonade drink. Add a lot of sugar to it. 🙂
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Basically, turn your ‘challenges’ into “something you can be grateful for”.
Alhamdulillah…..Reframe your challenge No 1 Alhamdulillah…. Reframe your challenge No 2 Alhamdulillah….Reframe your challenge No 3 Alhamdulillah….Reframe your challenge No 4 Alhamdulillah…Reframe your challenge No 5
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Examples for me…. 🙂
Alhamdulillah. I can now work from home and can spend more time with my family.
Alhamdulillah. I can now pray awal waktu for my 5 daily prayers at home. I can be a full time imam for my family.
Subuh, Zuhur, Asar, Maghrib and Isyak 🙂
Alhamdulillah. Responsible measures are finally in place to ensure that Singapore is one of the safest places on this earth.
Alhamdulillah. Since offline strategies are non existent, I need to learn & embrace NEW social media strategies like Instagram and TikTok to reach my customers.
Alhamdulillah. Now is a good time to watch my diet since we can’t dine out at restaurants.
Alhamdulillah Ala Kulli Hal. All praise to Allah S.W.T. for everything…
When you do this, you are placing yourself in a more EMPOWERING position to confront any challenges in your life.
You see things from a different perspective.
You feel in control.
I have been doing it for a while to maintain sanity and
make myself feel better.
Especially when I am down.
And I need to rise up back! It works for me most of the time! Try it for yourself! 🙂
2. Allah does not burden a soul beyond it can bear
In life, definitely there will be challenges.
Yet.
Sometimes, I feel that the challenge is too BIG for me to overcome.
Tried to reframe. Yet felt powerless.
Feel hopeless.
Helpless. Weak.
Like nothing can be done. Nothing!
When that happened, I recall this ayat from Allah S.W.T.
ALLAH does not burden a soul beyond it can bear
ALLAH does not burden a soul beyond it can bear
ALLAH does not burden a soul beyond it can bear
I always believe that everything that happens to us happens for a reason. And the reason is to serve us.
For every musibah that befalls us, there will be hikmah.
We have to be patient with Allah’s test and move ahead.
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3. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger
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I realised that whenever challenges come to me, it is a sign that Allah S.W.T
wants to lift my martabat.
wants to make me stronger.
wants to prepare me for something big.
We won’t know what we are capable of unless we persevere. We cannot discover new oceans unless we have the courage to lose sight of the shores.
Time and time again what I have learnt is that when we face setback.
When life throws stones at us. And we feel pain.
Endure it a bit. Tahan.
Because pain is temporary.
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Take 1 step forward.
And 1 more.
And 1 more.
Whatever it is, just keep moving forward.
Soon you will realise that all this pain is over
and you can grasp your goals with your 2 hands.
Good things will come.
Never falter. Or worst, never quit.
Because pain is temporary. Quitting lasts forever.
4. Do your best to steer away from Riba
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Within your hearts, plant a niat that you will do your best to steer away from RIBA.
From interest based loans. Allah S.W.T. told us in the Holy Quran 1400 years ago that Riba is Haram.
There is no barakah in it.
My friends,
Don’t be over-consumed with the vicious rat race.
Never compare yourself with others.
Wow! That person has nice car.
Wow! That person has nice house.
Wow! That person has XXXX…
List never ends.
Keeping up a lifestyle you can’t afford.
And when you can’t afford, you take loans with interest.
Again. There is no blessings in it.
Impossible for Allah to set the secret of happiness and contentment of the heart on something that is prohibited.
Too many people spend money they don’t have
for the things they don’t need,
to impress people they don’t like.
Free yourself from the chains of Riba. You will feel good.
You will nurse the unease in your heart and will be always be at peace with yourself.
You will feel better and live life on your own terms.
Not on other peoples’ expectations!
If you have the inkling to compare yourself with others, go on and compare.
Yet make it a source of inspiration.
And not a cause of depression.
And if you feel stressed, very easy. Close facebook. Close instagram. Close tiktok.
Just focus on yourself. Have faith in yourself.
Focus ONLY on your progress.
Because Your Progress = Your Happiness!
5. You will be completely feel at ease when you firmly believe that everything in this world happens by the will of Allah
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We always hear of this Arabic proverb.
Man Jadda, Wa Jadda.
Whoever strives shall succeed.
This time round, change it to Man Fi Sajaddah, Wa Jaddah.
My friends,
Our hard work is not just the hustle and bustle with fellow human beings on this planet. Our hard work is equally, if not MORE important on the sajadah.
On the prayer mat when we sujud to Allah S.W.T.
Allah hear our cries for help. Release all the burdens on your shoulder.
Seek his divine intervention.
Surrender to Allah.
Understand this.
Whatever that happens in this world is beyond our control
Don’t be despaired on things that you cannot control.
Don’t think…..
that you can stop the rain from falling.
The sun from rising from the east.
The moon from glowing.
The stars from twinkling bright at night.
Don’t.
If you have done your best and things still happen, believe me that its meant to be.
Don’t say, if I do this. This wont happen.
If I do that, that wont happen.
I should have done this.
I should have done that.
Instead say… Everything happens by the will of Allah. Whatever He wills happens,
and whatever he does not will does not happen.
We do our best. Let Allah do the rest.
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(An advice that I remind myself when I was hospitalised 2 years ago. Very relevant today!)
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Now… I hope you have benefited from my personal sharing, 5 Secret Ways To Make You Feel Better When Handling Challenges In Your Life…
If you are seeking a mentor, coach, consultant to share with you practical aspects on how you can plan your finance, the shariah compliant way in Singapore, I am always ready to help you.
Time flies.
Today is already the last few days we Muslims celebrate Hari Raya Puasa. 🙂
Every Hari Raya Puasa is special to me.
Nevertheless, this year Hari Raya Puasa is EXTRAspecial to me.
This is because Alhamdulillah….
It is the first Hari Raya my wife and I celebrate with our 3 months old baby, Yaslyn Inara. 🙂
(Myself, my wife and my baby)
Her laughter. Her cries. Her comel (super cute) cutie pie face melts my heart.
And it is such a joy looking at her cheeky and innocent smile (especially when she feels good after we clean and change her diapers).
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Hari Raya Puasa brings a lot of memories to me.
And below are 3 things I like about Hari Raya Puasa most and how it relates to Islamic Financial Planning in Singapore. 🙂
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1) Takbir Raya
I always look forward to the melodic tune of takbir raya, as I am deeply moved by the meaning of it. Takbir raya never fails to touch my heart.
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Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar.
Allah is great. Allah is great. Allah is great.
La ilaha illallah Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar walilahi ilhamd
There is no God, but Allah Allah is Great, Allah is Great; to Him belongs all Praise
It reminds me that no matter how great or how grand we plan our finances or our business,
Allah S.W.T. is the master, the best of all planners.
Allah S.W.T. is the greatest.
We can put in 99% of our effort to plan and work wholeheartedly to achieve our goals.
But if Allah S.W.T does not grant us that 1%, we will never achieve the goals that we plan and work for.
We can work 13-14 hours a day to achieve our financial/business goals.
But without Allah’s blessing, our financial/business goals will remain a distant dream.
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So remember, in everything we plan for.
Be it our financial goals.
Our business goals.
Our relationship goals.
Make doa to Allah S.W.T. that Allah S.W.T. helps us to achieve them.
After that, put in MASSIVE effort and tawakkal.
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2) Hari Raya Visiting
Hari Raya is also that time of the year where you get to visit your family members.
Visiting relatives is a great practice to strengthen the ukhwah or bond between families.
After all, families are the founding blocks of any society.
If we’re not peaceful or loving at this level, how do expect the ummah to be peaceful and loving also? 🙂
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It’s also a great time to catch up on everyone’s lives and at the same time, seek forgiveness for any transgressions that had happened over the year.
Sometimes we may think we have no problem with our aunts or cousins etc, but perhaps there may have been a time where your words had unknowingly hurt them.
In the Quran, Allah encourages us to forgive one another if we expect His forgiveness.
So what better way to start than seeking forgiveness from your own family members?
This practice helps gel the relationship between family members.
(My relatives who are amongst the first few visitors to my house)
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In fact, many times during my Islamic Financial Planning, I emphasize the importance of silaturahmi.
Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever is pleased to have his provision expanded and his life span extended, then he should keep good relations with his family.”
Source: Sahih al-Bukhari 1961, Sahih Muslim 2557
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Prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) said: “No person severs ties of kinship would enter Paradise.”
[Reported by Muslim 2556]
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“Learn enough about your lineage to facilitate keeping your ties of kinship. For indeed keeping the ties of kinship encourages affection among the relatives, increases the wealth, and increases the lifespan.”
(HR Imam Tirmidzi)
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3) The Joy Of Giving Duit Raya
Yes. As a kid, I love to go Hari Raya because I get Duit Raya.
We jokingly refer that as “Duit Raya Collection”. 🙂
(My daughter’s duit raya for this Shawal)
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When we are adults now, we’re no longer collecting but giving.
There’s joy in giving out duit raya.
It’s such a pleasure to see the bright smiles of kids with their laughters. 🙂
But you don’t only give the kids.
If you’re able to afford it, don’t forget to gift your elders with duit raya too.
The appreciative looks of our elders will warm the heart; you’re not only making them happy but you’re also racking up points on your good deeds scale, Insya’Allah.
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In Islamic Financial Planning, I advocate not only paying our obligatory zakat, but also making more donations.
During Ramadan, we’re always making conscious effort to donate, because we know the blessed month carries hefty rewards.
During Hari Raya, the practice of duit raya is also a form of donation.
But outside these months, at times, some of us tend to lax a bit on donations.
So a good practice in Islamic Financial Planning is to make conscious donations.
Perhaps you may want to consider setting up auto GIRO deduction for one or a few charitable organizations. This will be part of your monthly budget, which your financial planner can help draw up.
For all my clients, you know that you have an option to donate a specific percentage of your monthly premium contribution to charity.
(My clients have an option to donate part of their monthly premiums to charity)
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In my Islamic Financial Planning, I share the importance and benefits of donating your money.
Abdullah ibn Umar reported: Prophet Muhammad (Peace And Blessings Be Upon Him) was upon the pulpit mentioning charity and abstaining from begging and he said, “The upper hand is better than the lower hand, the upper hand being the one that gives and the lower hand being the one that receives.”
Source: Sahih Muslim 1033
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Prophet Muhammad (Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him) said: “Allah loves the God-fearing rich man [who gives much in charity but still] remains obscure and uncelebrated.” (Muslim)
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At the end of the day, we not only want to accumulate our wealth. We seek baraqah in it.
We pray that we get blessings from Allah S.W.T. in whatever we do,
especially when its comes to work for our rezeki on this earth.
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That sums up the 3 things I like about Hari Raya Puasa and how it relates to Islamic Financial Planning in Singapore.
If you are looking on the practical aspects on how you can save, accumulate and grow your money the shariah compliant way in Singapore,
you can always whatsapp/sms me at 96520134 to schedule a FREE consultation.
Or perhaps click here to schedule an appointment.
You will want to schedule it asap because I can only accomodate 5 slots per week.
And next week, I will be heading for my long holiday to Oman and Dubai. Insya’Allah.
Alhamdulillah. Ramadan is a blessed guest that comes once a year.
In this beautiful month, we Muslims are encouraged to increase our worship
and to be more charitable.
It’s a month filled with barakah, where your deeds are multiplied.
And your sins will be forgiven if you are sincere.
When we abstain from food and drink, it’s a reminder to be mindful of those around us who are less fortunate.
We also have to watch our words and temper. Ramadan helps us to develop our better self.
So don’t be surprise some of our best practices in Ramadan are also useful principles in managing your personal finances.
I termed the concept with the acronym R.A.M.A.D.A.N. so that it is easier to remember. 🙂
Reflect
Ramadan is a time of reflection.
It is a time for introspection.
It is a time where we should take stock of ourselves.
And have an honest assessment of our shortcomings.
It is the time of the year in which we recharge our iman.
And prepare for the challenges facing us over the next 334 days.
Challenges that will test us in the next 8016 hours.
Getting ourselves prepared every single moment.Every single 480,960 minutes to come!
This can only be done if we muhasabah…. pause, reflect on our own faults,
introduce feedforward controls
and implement solutions during this important month.
(Beautiful side view of Sultan Mosque)
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Similar to managing our personal finance, we should reflect and ask ourselves these questions.
Do I have 3-6 months of emergency expenses in my bank account? (Basic Liquidity Ratio)
Have I been saving 20% of my monthly income? (Savings Ratio)
Is my debt service ratio above the recommended rate? Am I highly leverage?
And most importantly, from a perspective of a Muslim, we need to reflect on this.
Have I been paying zakat for my cooperative insurance policies
and shariah compliant investable assets when it hits the nisab value and reach the haul of 1 year?
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(The kadar nisab as of today, 11th June 2017)
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These are important questions that you have to ask yourself.
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The reason why I am bringing this up is because I just received a call from one of my blog readers.
She told me, she paid for zakat fitrah all along. BUT she has OVERLOOKED paying her zakat harta for her cooperative insurance policies and shariah compliant investable assets for the past 20 years!
Paying zakat is one of the pillars of Islam.
She is clueless and seeked my advice on what she could do.
Of course, now is the best time for us to reflect on ourselves too! 🙂
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Absolute Patience
Ramadan is about overcoming base instincts and have patience.
(My newborn baby daughter, Yaslyn Inara relaxing by the sea.)
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It’s not easy to withhold hunger and thirst, and to watch your behavior and grab at any opportunity you can to do good.
We are so used to eating and drinking whenever we want.
And also we rarely watch the things we say.
And we tend to be lazy or procrastinate.
So Ramadan forces us to hold back and in doing so, it requires patience on our part. Absolute patience. No two ways about that! 🙂
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Managing your finances is also about overcoming a basic instinct and have patience.
Humans are naturally inclined to instant gratification.
We want things NOW!
We hardly blink an eye eating out everyday or splurging on staycation / new bag / new gadget.
But the moment we need to set aside money for the future, most of us start coming up with all sorts of excuses.
The reason why we are adverse in saving up is because we don’t see its immediate benefit.
Although logically we know it’s to help us in the future, our base instinct is to enjoy things now.
So understand that in financial planning, you need to have absolute patience.
Be stronger than your basic instinct and commit yourself to save up or invest every month.
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Moderation
Ramadan is about moderation.
Everyday, after Azan Maghrib, I listened to the radio ads on Warna 94.2FM by Health Promotion Board.
It states that 1 out 6 Singaporean Malays from age 18-69 have diabetes.
This is a trend that is unhealthy and worrying.
As someone who loves to eat delicious food, enjoy sumptious buffets with beautiful, tantalising arrays of food,
I find Ramadan not only an opportunity for me to increase my Ibadah.
It is opportunity for me to watch my diet and eat moderately.
We eat heartily for suhoor, as we need energy to get on with the day.
And when we break for iftaar, the food we consume should be in moderation, enough for us to sustain our energy levels for the taraweeh prayers.
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Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (Please And Blessings Be Upon Him) has taught us the formula for moderation when we eat our food. We should fill our stomachs with 1/3 of food, 1/3 of drink and leave 1/3 for breath.
Prophet Muhammad (Please And Blessings Be Upon Him) said: “No human ever filled a vessel worse than the stomach. Sufficient for any son of Adam are some morsels to keep his back straight. But if it must be, then one third for his food, one third for his drink and one third for his breath.”
[Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasaa’I, Ibn Majah – Hadith sahih]
(Myself Iftar with my family near Changi)
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Similarly, in managing our finances, we have to practice moderation.
Usually when I encounter very ambitious prospects who wants to start a shariah compliant investment plan with a big monthly contribution,
as a finanial planner, I will dig deep in their finance first.
How much are you earning?
What is your monthly expenses like? After deducting your monthly expenses, how much are you left with?
Do you have 3-6 months of emergency expenses set aside in your bank account?
You mentioned to me that you want to save $XXXX/month. Have you been saving $XXXX/mth for the last 6 months?
Yes? No? Why No?
If they are not ready, usually I would decline them as my client first and share with them strategies on how to accumulate money fast, over the short term period.
Of course, do it the shariah compliant way in Singapore.
Once they are financially stable, meet me again, and I share simple yet powerful financial strategies that I personally use to grow my wealth the shariah compliant way in Singapore.
My role, my relationship with them as a financial consultant is to help grow their investable assets and networth the shariah compliant way in Singapore.
And moderation is key.
Slow and steady always win the race. 🙂
(You can download a free report of me sharing how you can create your own personal networth statement and cashflow statement in less than 10 minutes even if you have no financial background. Click here. )
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Act On Opportunities
Ramadan is about taking advantage of opportunities.
As mentioned, it’s a month where your deeds are doubled in reward and you’ll be forgiven for your sins if you’re sincere in your taubah. Let’s not be fools like the ones mentioned in the following hadith:
Abu Huraira (r.a.) related that Rasulullah (s.a.w) said: Many people who fast get nothing from their fast except hunger and thirst, and many people who pray at night get nothing from it except wakefulness (Darimi).
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Similarly, effective financial planning is about taking advantage of opportunities. You’re not going to be young forever.
For example, if you’re taking up a shariah compliant insurance plan, you pay less in terms of mortality charges if you’re in your early thirties as compared to when you’re in your forties. So instead of paying more in the future, why not start early and pay lesser yet still accumulate much more?
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Talking about opportunities, a lot of you might be aware that in the year 2008 (subprime mortgage crisis)
which leads to global economic crisis (year 2009), I help a lot of my clients make money. They make a lot of money. Yet, I dont make much money.
(Myself and my fellow colleagues doing roadshows 10 years ago)
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At that time, I was 21 years old, just completed my 2 years army, and new to my job as a financial consultant.
In army, we only received about $500/mth, thus naturally I dont have much opportunity funds.
Nevertheless, I have financial knowledge (Diploma in Accountancy), and I managed to convince a lot of people to invest with me.
Yet, I dont have much to invest.
I remembered that Abang who came to me.
“Helmi…. Thank you so much lah for helping Abang make so much money via investment. Very good!
Btw, just want to check with you lah, how much percentage in terms of share of my profit, do you get??”
I answered, “Not a single cent”.
I was disappointed. I was sad for myself, yet happy for my clients.
I consoled myself by telling myself,
“Its okay Helmi. Now you are young. Start saving as much opportunity funds as possible. In investment, there are market cycles. In the future, when there is a market downturn, make sure you have a lot of money to capitalise on the OPPORTUNITY.”
Yes! Prepare and grab opportunities as it comes by! 🙂
Discipline and awesome time management
Ramadan teaches us to be disciplined. It’s not easy to go hungry and thirsty, and on top of that be on our best behavior.
This is only achieved through discipline, which comes from the taqwa (consciousness) of Allah.
In addition to that, Ramadan nurtures us to be discipline in how we manage our time.
We have to wake up earlier than usual to do our suhoor, then at night, our time is spent at taraweeh prayers.
So it’s very important for us to plan our day right, and this is where being discipline in managing our time well comes in. Otherwise, you’ll end up sleeping late and missing suhoor, or you’ll be too tired to do taraweeh because you were doing way too much during the day.
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(What I had for suhoor earlier, my protein shake and a drink)
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Managing your personal finances is also about discipline.
A lot of people thought if someone earns a lot, he automatically becomes rich.
That is a myth. My experiences as a financial consultant tells me otherwise.
I have met someone who earns >$10,000/mth who cannot afford to get savings plan from me (always lapsing his policy and I have to chase for payment).
And at the same time, someone just earning $1,500 who has a few policies with me.
In fact, if you look at that same person, who earns >$10,000/mth facebook, you will be thinking,
“Woah! He is so lucky! So rich! Driving flashy cars and always travelling on expensive holidays all over the world”.
The beautiful part of being a financial consultant is that we dont look at you on the surface.
Expensive cars, branded goods to showcase etc2.
Those are good to have but superficial.
We look directly at your personal financial statements.
Anybody can start a savings or investment plan, but it takes character and utmost discipline to maintain it.
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Abstinence from haram stuffs
Similarly, when running a business or making money through investments, we have to ensure that it is Halal.
It is shariah compliant. Free from Riba. Maysir. And Gharar.
On the day of judgement, five basic queries that will be made to every being as per the following Saying of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH):
“The son of Adam will not pass away from Allah until he is asked about five things: how he lived his life, and how he utilized his youth, with what means did he earn his wealth, how did he spend his wealth, and what did he do with his knowledge.” (Tirmidhi)
Thus when a lot of people meet me, they realised I am a financial consultant that is different compared to majority of the other financial consultants in Singapore.
I have a different set of philosophies and principles .
When others advice their clients to take as much loans as possible as a form of leverage (as long as fulfil DSR), I advice my clients not to take interest bearing loans. Even if the interest rate is super low. It is because interest is riba. If you have it, clear it asap.
When others advice their clients on financial instruments that involved maysir and gharar, I advice my clients against that. No short selling of stocks. No speculative financial instruments.
And I advice my clients on how they can scrutinise their portfolio of investments via various shariah compliant screening methodologies like Dow Jones Islamic Markets, Securities Commission Malaysia etc2.
This is important because at the end of the day, we not only want to make money. We want the baraqah and Allah’s blessing together with it.
Amin. Insya’Allah.
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Night Of Destiny
A Malay proverb says, “Kita hanya merancang, tuhan menentukan”.
I always share with my clients. In life, we can only plan.
Allah S.W.T. is the Master of Destiny.
As we are approaching the last 10 nights of Ramadan, we Muslims believe there is this one night known as Night of Destiny (Laylat al-Qadr).
On this special night the blessings and mercy of Allah are abundant, sins are forgiven, supplications are accepted, and that the annual decree is revealed to the angels who also descend to earth.
Make Tahajud prayers. Make Hajat prayers.
And when making doa to Allah S.W.T., I share with my clients, family and friends.
Dont make doa like,
“Ya Allah. Make me rich. Give me long life…. and the list continues”
Add these words. “Ya Allah. If this is good for me, good for my parents, good for my religion, grant me (what you wish)”
Put your trust in Allah S.W.T.
Biiznillah your doa will be maqbul. And if not, Allah S.W.T will replace with something better.
Insya’Allah. 🙂
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From a spiritual level, the Night Of Destiny is extremely powerful.
From the Imam of Makkah, he said for the last 10 nights of Ramadan,
1) If you donate $1 every night, and it falls under the night of destiny, it means as if you have donated every day for 84 years.
2) 2 rakaat of prayers every night, and it falls under the night of destiny, it means we pray every day for 84 years.
3) Read Surah Al-Ikhlas 3 times per night, and it falls under the night of destiny, it means we have read the entire Al-Quran everyday for 84 years.
(Translated from Ustazah Siti Nor Bahyah Mahamood facebook’s sharing, 18th June)
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So that sums up my R.A.M.A.D.A.N formula.
And how you can learn the good principles of this beautiful month and apply it when managing your personal finance, the shariah compliant way in Singapore.
May Allah S.W.T accept our ibadah and good deeds that we performed in Ramadan. Insya’Allah! 🙂
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Ramadan is here again. We, Muslims fast during the month of Ramadan.
Fasting in the month of Ramadan is the 4th pillar of Islam.
The 5 Pillars of Islam are: 1) Shahadah, declaration of faith and trust that professes that there is only one God (Allah) and that Prophet Muhammad is God’s messenger.
2)Salat which is the Islamic prayer.
Salat consists of five daily prayers; the names are according to the prayer times: Fajr (dawn), Dhuhr (noon), Asar (afternoon), Maghrib (evening), and Isha’ (night).
3) Paying Zakat, purifying your wealth and soul by giving a portion of your wealth to those in need.
4) Fasting in the month of Ramadhan
5) Hajj, which is pilmigrage to Mecca. It occurs during the Islamic month of Dhu al-Hijjah.
Every able-bodied Muslim is obliged to make the pilgrimage to Mecca at least once in their life.
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Today, I am going to share with you on the 4th pillar of Islam, which is fasting in the month of Ramadan.
Ramadan is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar and is observed by Muslims worldwide as a month of fasting to commemorate the first revelation of the Quran to Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H).
We believe Quran is God’s words, and Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) is the last messenger of God.
During the blessed month of Ramadan, Muslims all over the world abstain from all food, drink, and other physical needs during the daylight hours (such as smoking or sex).
Daily fasts begin at dawn and end with sunset.
Ramadan is much more than just not eating and drinking; it is a time to purify our soul, refocus our attention on Allah S.W.T., and practice self-discipline and sacrifice.
At night, we, Muslims will go to the mosque to perform our special prayers known as Taraweeh.
This is a month when a Muslim should try to AVOID practices like:
smoking,
swearing,
treating people with disrespect
being mean
harming or hurting living things
being cruel
un-courteous and selfish.
Fasting has also many special benefits.
Among these, the most important is that it is a means of learning self-control.
Ramadan is also a time of intensive worship, reading of the Quran, giving charity, purifying one’s behavior, and doing good deeds.
For Muslims, Ramadan is an opportunity to gain by giving up, to prosper by going without and to grow stronger by enduring weakness.
As a secondary goal, fasting is a way of experiencing hunger and developing sympathy for the less fortunate, and learning to thankfulness and appreciation for all of God’s bounties.
Fasting is also beneficial to health and provides a break in the cycle of rigid habits or overindulgence.
So…To All Muslims Brothers and Sisters.
Happy Fasting! 🙂
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In my profession as a financial consultant, I always experiment with different techniques.
Different concepts.
And different strategies to help my clients solve their financial objectives/problems.
One of them is using Edward De Bono 6 Thinking Hats.
As humans, sometimes, when we face a problem, we tend to find ways to solve our problem, looking at it from only ONE perspective. ONE angle.
AND because of that, sometimes the decisions that we made may not be the best.
Simply because we don’t have a clear process.
That is why Edward Debono 6 Thinking Hats can help us understand and solve problems more efficiently.
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Let’s apply this to a financial objective.
“Clearing your housing loan debt.”
Each hat represents a specific thinking role/perspective.
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1. The White Hat (Facts and Figures)
First, put on this thinking hat.
The White Hat deals strictly with facts and figures. No emotions or idea generation should happen here. So for our problem, the facts will look something like this:
My housing loan is $300,000, payable for 30 years.
My monthly instalment is $1201.02/mth.
Out of $1201.02, $650 goes to pay for interest, and $551.02 goes to pay outstanding balance.
Ceteris Paribus, after paying for 10 years, my outstanding balance will be $224,579.
If I can save up, accumulate and grow my money the shariah compliant way… having $224,579, on hand, at the end of 10 years, I will have cleared my housing loan debt.
Fact and figures. Pretty straightforward.
2. The Green Hat (Creativity)
Now that you’ve got all the facts, it’s time to come up with solutions.
Save $224,579 by the end of 10 years?
Easier said than done! 🙂
The Green Hat symbolizes creativity.
It’s about generating ideas and exploring possibilities.
So list all the ways you can think of to save money or get money.
E.g: – Open a separate shariah compliant savings account, BUT don’t have ATM card. Every month, get my pay, I do a FAST transfer to my separate savings account. It’s called FORCED SAVINGS.
-Clean my house, and set aside all my junk stuffs. Take picture and sell them at Carousell!
– Have a coin box. Everyday, just use notes to spend. All the coins, save it up in your coin box….
The list, continues…. Go on and on… Let your ideas flow. Like streams of water in the river…
3. The Yellow Hat
Awesome! Now you’ve got your ideas, it’s time to play pros and cons.
The Yellow Hat symbolizes optimism (because it’s such a bright, happy color).
It focuses on the positive aspects and benefits of your ideas.
In this thinking role, you have to pretend that everything will work out fine.
E.g.
Idea #1: Open a separate shariah compliant savings account, BUT don’t have ATM card. Every month, get my pay, I do a FAST transfer to my separate savings account. It’s called FORCED SAVINGS.
Positive Aspects: Awesome!!! It is a super quick way to save up and accumulate money.
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Idea #2: Clean my house, and set aside all my junk stuffs. Take picture and sell them at Carousell!
Positive Aspects: Awesome!!! Its like killing 2 birds with one stone, or the Malay saying, “Sambil menyelam minum air.”
I have a clean house, clearing all the clutters away AND I make some money.
Idea #3: Have a coin box. Everyday, just use notes to spend. All the coins, save it up in your coin box….
Positive Aspects: Awesome!!! My wallet wont be bulging out with coins. And I save more money.
You’ve got the positive benefits of your list of ideas. Now do the opposite.
The Black Hat deals with negativity. You’re going to play the devil and come up with all sorts of excuses why your ideas won’t work.
Idea #1: Open a separate shariah compliant savings account, BUT don’t have ATM card. Every month, get my pay, I do a FAST transfer to my separate savings account. It’s called FORCED SAVINGS.
Negative Aspects: Alright. Though I can force myself to save my money quickly, how much are the returns/hibah that I am getting? Can it beats inflation? I doubt so.
Idea #2: Clean my house, and set aside all my junk stuffs. Take picture and sell them at Carousell!
Negative Aspects: Alright. Will anybody really buy my junk stuffs? Why would they buy when it is all JUNK?
Right?
Idea #3: Have a coin box. Everyday, just use notes to spend. All the coins, save it up in your coin box….
Negative Aspects: Can I really save much money, just by saving my coins everyday? Substantial enough to pay off my housing loan in 10 years?
5. The Red Hat
Ok, so far you’ve used your mind to do all the work. Now use your heart.
The Red Hat represents emotions/feelings.
Go through your ideas, looking at both their pros and cons.
Ask yourself, am I comfortable with this idea?
Do I feel strongly for it?
Is the sacrifice worth it?
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6. The Blue Hat
This is the final hat. Your objective here is to make sure that you’ve done all the previous steps correctly.
Then summarize your results and you should have a clear overview of what your final decision(s) is.
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E.g.: Alright. Perhaps all the methods above can work.
Opening up a separate shariah compliant savings account with out ATM card.
Selling unused stuffs in Carousell.
Having a coin box can help.
Alhamdulillah…. It can help me accumulate my money fast.
It can help me accumulate a sizeable capital amount.
But to accumulate $ $224,579 in 10 years, is no easy feat!!!
So what I can do, to make it looks more realistic is perhaps to extend my time-line to 15 years. Instead of 10 years.
AND find ways on how to grow my money, the shariah compliant way in Singapore.
Beating inflation, and accelerate the returns so that I have enough to clear off my housing loans in the future.
7. Conclusion
This thinking tool is really useful, especially for problems that require serious consideration.
You can apply this to any area of your life, such as career choice, insurance choice etc.
I personally went through this, when I designed “Your Financial M.A.P. Model”
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